What are the fundamental building blocks of a healthy society?
Tom Ascol emphasizes the unchanging responsibilities of fathers, mothers, and children as ordained by God. Since God established the family as the cornerstone of society, these roles remain constant even as societal circumstances evolve. In today's negative world, especially for Christian fathers in America, fulfilling these roles presents unique challenges. Unlike 50 years ago, when Christianity was largely viewed positively, fathers now face potential criticism for disciplining their children according to biblical principles. The challenge lies in executing these duties with wisdom and shrewdness amid an increasingly pagan culture.
Despite these challenges, the core responsibilities remain unchanged. Fathers are called to train their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, even if society does not recognize or support these efforts. It is essential for fathers to be aware of the cultural climate, adapting their approach without compromising their biblical duties. This steadfast commitment is crucial for maintaining the integrity of the family as the basic unit of society, serving as a testimony of faithfulness to God's design.
Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV): "Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it."
Again, the basic responsibilities of fathers, mothers, children, they don't change because God doesn't change and God created the world and he established the family in the world. This is the basic building block for all society is the family. And so what he calls fathers to do, he's always called them to do. That might look a little different depending upon our circumstances. Aaron Wren has written about the negative world that we live in today.
And so I think for a lot of fathers, Christian fathers in America today, there's a great challenge because it's not the way it was 50 years ago when being a Christian was either recognized as a good thing or at least not a bad thing, but increasingly it's becoming a bad thing. And so fathers have to carry out their duties before God in this negative world, recognizing that you're not going to get applauded for disciplining your children and training them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, and you're not even going to be ignored anymore, but you may actually be castigated and it may cost you to do this and you're going to have to be more shrewd and wise in how you carry it out. So the basic responsibilities don't change, but we may need to think more carefully about how we carry out those responsibilities in an increasingly pagan culture and that's the duty of every father to own that.