Phil George explains in this video that if there is a brother or sister caught in transgressions, it is not something that we can ignore. And yet, the confronting shouldn't be done out of a self-righteous attitude. At the same time, we must be mindful of our own transgressions and shortcomings.

Matthew 7:1-3 (NKJV) - "And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?"



So for a husband that has an angry wife, I would point him to Galatians 6.1 which says, Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. And I would try to unpack that text a little bit and help him to see the things that he's called to in that. And what we see there is that if we have a brother or sister that's caught in transgression, it's not optional that we should confront that issue. So if we're talking about a wife that's caught in any kind of habitual sin, including anger, it's something that the husband just can't ignore and let not be addressed. And so I would encourage him first and foremost, this is something that must be addressed.

And the text continues to help us to see how we are to do that and what the Spirit is that we should do that within. And it says we have to do this with the spirit of gentleness. So this shouldn't be harsh and also it shouldn't be done out of a self-righteous attitude. At the end of that text what we see is that we're called to keep watch on ourselves, lest we too be tempted. So we have to remember the reality that as Christians, it may be tomorrow that we're caught up in sin, and some brother or sister, maybe even our wife, has to come alongside and help us in that.

And as a part of the reminder to keep watching ourselves, it would be proper to examine yourself in light of where you