Malamulo Chindongo explains in this video that it is important for mene to examine the life of Christ and the way He dealt with men, women, and children. How He dealt with enemies of God, sinners, and His disciples. He was the perfect example of what a godly man should look like.

1 Corinthians 16:13-14 (NKJV) - "Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with love."

The first thing, when I think about manhood, the first thing I do is to go to the Gospels and see the first man, the God-man, Jesus Christ, and to begin to see just the way he grew up, his wisdom, his humility, the way he dealt with people. So you see him, the way he dealt with women, the way he dealt with other men, the way he dealt with those who were struggling with sin and were repentant, the way he dealt with children, the way he, his relationship with God the Father fully submitted, that's what a true man, a real man looks like, The way he dealt with the enemies of God and we see Jesus cleansing the temple with those who went without the temple, doing business in the temple, that Jesus dealt with with every group of people accordingly. And that's the first place we should go and learn what it means to be a man. We go to Jesus and we learn from him his sacrifice, his selfless service and love for his people for his family.