How should a father interact with leaders of a church?

Gary Powers explains in this video that families of a church are under the authority of the leaders of that church. Families should strive to honor those who are in leadership positions over them.

If fathers exhibit a rebellious attitude to those in authority, the rest of the family will see that. Accordingly, fathers need to model submission to their families. We must be under authority and understand what it means to be under authority.

Hebrews 13:17 (NKJV) - "Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you."

When the church meets, we gather that we are a family that's under authority and that we're not so independently minded. Yes, there are jurisdictions, there's jurisdictions in the home and there are jurisdictions in the local church. But we want to be good members of the local church. We want to honor those that have been given rule over us and we want to be good examples to our children and if I have a rebellious attitude, if I have an independent spirit towards those that are in authority in a local church. My children are going to pick up that same attitude.

My wife is going to pick up that same attitude. And so we need to be under authority and we need to teach that to our children. Sometimes I look at families and the children are rebellious and I think the same attitudes are often in the parents. There's just this independent spirit that Nobody is going to tell them what to do. And I think that we need to be under authority.

Being under authority, understanding authority is one of the great principles of the scripture. You