What does it truly mean to follow Jesus?

In this video, Paul Washer explains that following Jesus is not just about obeying commands, although obedience is part of it. Neither is it just about a subjective, intimate relationship based on feelings. These two extremes, he argues, are both incorrect if taken in isolation. True discipleship incorporates elements from both ends of the spectrum. We are called not just to follow commands, but to know Jesus personally and to engage in a deep relationship with Him.

However, this intimate relationship is not without context. It exists within the framework of God's nature and will, which he has revealed to us. Therefore, the essence of following Jesus is twofold. First, it is about cultivating an intimate relationship with him. Second, it involves honoring Christ by adhering to his commands within the context of that relationship.

John 14:15 (NKJV): 'If you love Me, keep My commandments.'

Always, there are two extremes in almost anything in Christianity. So, one extreme is that it's just all about obeying commands. Now, it is not less than obeying commands, but it's far more, again. So one extreme is it's just all about obeying commands. The other extreme is it's just all about this personal, intimate relationship that is subjective and based on feeling.

Okay? Well, both of those are wrong, but there's an element of each that are important to true discipleship. We desire not just to follow commands, we desire to know a person and to exist in an intimate personal relationship with him. But that person has made it very clear that that intimate personal relationship exists within the context of his nature and will that he has revealed to us. And so it's both things.

One, it's seeking to cultivate a relationship. The other is in that relationship, seeking to honor Christ by following his commands.